Does your teen seem to be overly aware of their health concerns or mental health concerns? Perhaps they already have a medical condition but are constantly worried about increased symptoms or even symptoms that might be related to other conditions? Are they afraid to go places for fear their anxiety will be too much, or that their diabetes will be too much to handle? Maybe they automatically go to web searches on their symptoms that might be a cold or a headache but they begin to believe they have a serious illness. Do they complain of headaches, stomach aches, or are constantly evaluating their body?

Here’s how you can help!

Validate the fear/worries- your child is experiencing anxiety that is causing a reaction in them in which they truly BELIEVE something is happening to them.
Help them to think of alternatives to the worst case scenario.
Reassure them they can handle this and you are there to support.
Model and practice calm breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, and other calming activities to decrease level of anxiety.

These techniques will help to challenge the worry and increase your teen’s ability to tolerate the anxiety. Your teen can live a full life, including spending time with friends and family as well as going to school and other events. If your child continues to struggle, consider reaching out to a mental health professional. You can also contact us.

More tools for helping teens with anxiety to come!

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There's a lot of pressure on our teens as they start a new school year. Do you hear any of these concerns from your teen?

Will school feel like it used to before COVID?

How am I going to sit in classes all day when I was able to do my work when I wanted at home, even doing it in the middle of the night if I wanted?

I have no idea what I actually learned last year, will I be able to keep up this year?

What if I failed classes, will I be sitting with younger classmates and be embarrassed?

I haven't had to be in large crowds in over a year. Can I handle the cafeteria and the halls?

What if I panic? I will be so embarrassed if I have an anxiety attack!

I don't have any friends at this school, what if no one likes me?

Transitioning back into school can be tough! As a parent, you can help process their concerns by not immediately trying to fix the problem. Here's some steps that can help:

Validate: learn about and accept their feelings

Allow feelings: let them feel their feelings rather than shoving them away/avoiding or pushing down inside

Ask what they need:

"Would you like to space to process their emotions or would like you to be around for support?"

"Would like some ideas/other perspective for solving the problem?"

Transition: assist in moving to a positive activity

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