Cultivating Minds - Teen Edition #2

There's a lot of pressure on our teens as they start a new school year.  Do you hear any of these concerns from your teen?

Will school feel like it used to before COVID? 

How am I going to sit in classes all day when I was able to do my work when I wanted at home, even doing it in the middle of the night if I wanted? 

I have no idea what I actually learned last year, will I be able to keep up this year? 

What if I failed classes, will I be sitting with younger classmates and be embarrassed? 

I haven't had to be in large crowds in over a year.  Can I handle the cafeteria and the halls? 

What if I panic?  I will be so embarrassed if I have an anxiety attack!   

I don't have any friends at this school, what if no one likes me?

 

Transitioning back into school can be tough!  As a parent, you can help process their concerns by not immediately trying to fix the problem. Here's some steps that can help:

Validate: learn about and accept their feelings

Allow feelings: let them feel their feelings rather than shoving them away/avoiding or pushing down inside

Ask what they need:

"Would you like to space to process their emotions or would like you to be around for support?"

"Would like some ideas/other perspective for solving the problem?"

Transition: assist in moving to a positive activity

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